How can a man's life keep its course
If he will not let it flow ?
Those who flow as life flows know
They need no other force:
They fell no wear,they fell no tear,
They need no mending, no repair
- Lao-TZU,Tao Te CHING

You reach a certain age when money is not the primary driver of your life, especially when you have a child or two. Still, you have to decide what you can live with. If you enjoy what you’re doing, it helps compensate for a lower salary.. "